Hilda Clark (1881-1955), a doctor, wrote in 1908 of her experience when her sister-in-law died in childbirth:
I am thinking of those lovely fine days when Cara sat with me for hours sewing her little things. I feel as if my whole life might be better and more use to others from those two days, but what an awful price it is to pay. Do you know, I actually felt that it was 'better' somehow than those awful hours with those two poor creatures in the maternity hospital, when one's heart felt like ice within one, because one realised the tragedy with one's brain, and not with one's heart. And if I ever have to hold such a cold hand and feel such a death stricken pulse, I think a little of the love I have for Cara will go out to the victim, whoever it may be ... No, justice is of the Spirit, not of the outside world - but our understanding is so wrapped up in outward things that we can only grow spiritually by applying spiritual things to material ones - therefore we must be just though Nature is not.
One thing I understand now is that one's intellect alone won't pull one through, and that the greatest service it can perform is to open a window for that thing we call the divine spirit. If one trusts to it alone it's like trusting to an artificial system of ventilation - correct in theory but musty in practice. How I wish it were as easy to throw everything open to the spirit of God as it is to fresh air.