I have heard some Friends deny their anger in a silent 'peace' where there is no understanding of each other. Such Friends are angry but by their silence the progress of world peace has stood still. If we are angry we know how wars develop. It does not matter who's wrong. What matters is that we care enough to talk to each other.
How do we become reconciled to each other if we are asunder? All I can say is to go up to that person and say what is in your heart; that their ways are hurting but you still love them. But this takes time and not many people like to look in a person's face and find out who they are. So we miss the reconciliation and do not have the experience - that we cared. Given that, then we will know who we are and find relief in tears we all should share. This is where peace starts.
Sue Norris, 1982