The use of meetings for clearness in preparation for marriage
Some area meetings have re-introduced a former practice. On receiving a request for a marriage according to Friends' usage, they offer to appoint a meeting for clearness as part of the preparation involved. They recognise that this may provide an opportunity, for both the couple and those invited to take part, to explore the nature of the commitment that is being contemplated. The small group of Friends and the couple will get to know one another at a deeper level. Prayerful consideration in a relaxed atmosphere is time well spent. It may be of benefit to the couple in later years.
The origin of these meetings was to ensure that the persons contemplating marriage were 'clear' of any encumbrance. Nowadays the name is used to indicate a search for clearness as to whether the proposed course of action is right.
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